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What’s Black Enough?
Sun, 02/10/2008 - 23:48 | CommunityA biracial employee, Jamie Kendall, sued the Urban League after not being promoted to CEO. She claims that she was asked if she was "black enough" to lead the organization dedicated to creating equal opportunities for African Americans and other minorities.What exactly is "Black enough" and why is it an issue?


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It's just sad that we are
It's just sad that we are addressing such a question in the 21st century. I know for fact that folks will judge us whether we're too black or not black enough. We know it goes all the way back to the plantation - light skinned vs. brown skin all the way black skin folks - who was allowed to get close to massa or who would be out into the fields. Light skinned folks have been catching hell ever since and dared to complain because after all "at least ya'll got to be a foot warmer."
What in the world does not being black enough really mean? While it is a real barrier in certain situations (this case for instance). How crazy does that statement sound? About as bad as "you got good/bad hair". Arrrgghhh when will end the madness?
How many times have people
How many times have people crossed the street in your lifetime? Tried to catch a cab late at night in New York or any major city? Ever got lost in a neighborhood that was not black? What was the reaction of the local neighborhood residents?
Black people have such a
Black people have such a negative self-image that we ask ourselves dumb questions like, is he/she black enough; yet, we are quick to label Bill Clinton the first black president. I have and will always despise that we dare to seriously give Bill that title; it's shameful, not funny. Those that perpetuate that comment most likely believe that white is right and black is inferior.
If white people are black enough to lead our companies, organizations, cities and the country, then why are black people not black enough to do the same.
Seriously people?
Oprah always quotes Ms.
Oprah always quotes Ms. Angelou’s famous words about “When a person shows their face to you, Believe It”!!! This is so true and especially in this time of integration. Example of this is Supreme Court Justice Thomas. It is a public fact that he is in a Bi-racial marriage, but if he was to raise any Bi-racial children in the way in which he has ruled from the bench, the Urban League would be in a world of trouble. This is not to criticize him, but only to depict that he appears to rule as a Black Man without a backbone strong enough to stand up for what is right and good for America. So what black people see is that it is like instead of making America Proud as a Black Man in such Prestige American position, he seem to go along in order to get along. This intimidated conduct only jeopardizes the constitutional structure of America. It is so true, he is no Thurgood Marshall!!! Marshall did not do what was best for Black People; he applied the laws without personal opinion, and he did what was in accordance with the Constitution of the land.
We must remember in integrating in marriage that our Fore Parents accepted that there were some good white folk and some bad ones too. They also knew that there were some of us that just did not want to be known for the Blackness within. This combination of an integrated couple could reap disaster for an integrated child’s Black Culture side. This does not only have to be with an integrated child only. It can happen with children who are raise around another Culture, but are not taught to embrace their innate selves. Glover & Goldberg demonstrated this in a movie, I believed called, “The Good Fences.”
So the concern is valid and it's important to put into place legal requirements (one would be a clear and valid verification of past work history done with Moving Ahead a Black organization) that the person that's being advanced into any organization has the same Mission Focus as the Mission. There would even be skepticism surly about Thomas, Rice, or Connerly(?).
It is a proper time and place for certain questions, if the question was really asked, because their are also some new Spanish-speaking people, Republicans, evangelical conservatives, and even intimidated Blacks showing their faces and hating against the progress of Black people, Liberals, Democrats, and anybody that does not support their belief or may believe differently from them in America.
And yet, we still have not
And yet, we still have not come to the full realization of what holds us back... our own mental slavery. The mere fact that we define ourselves by our color is the chain that binds our minds and souls. "When the color of our skin is of no more significance than the color of our eyes"... is the line drawn in the sand and on the other side lies our freedom. No one can deny our history; no one can deny the inequalities still existing in the system and in the way other races perceive us; but let me be very clear, until we are able to break free from the labels we put upon ourselves, nothing changes. "As a man thinks, so is he". If we do not like the labels put upon us by others, why then is it acceptable to project them amongst ourselves?
Black, brown, light-brown, chocolate brown, the list goes on .... these are what we pass on to our children as a statement of who they are. To the many who do not think it is damaging, then explain the thousands of black women who ritually bleach their skin to have a lighter appearance. We need to stop this garbage. We are human beings, period. No one has to keep telling me I am black......so what else is there to my existence upon this earth? Therein lies our mission.
I implore Tavis Smiley and all the others in positions to enable and assist in helping our people transform the way we define ourselves... IT CAN NEVER BE COLOR FIRST !!! That is not what God created... it is like staying stuck on the packaging without ever taking a look inside at the Divine gift. If we keep separating ourselves with these labels about color that is how the rest of the world will continue to perceive us and black people will never become a part of the "whole"... we will always just be ... black people. It's time to evolve our thinking...
Hmmmm...What is Black Enough?
Hmmmm...What is Black Enough? It is whatever your mind takes you. I will say take a look inside yourself. Tavis is doing so much for "our" communities, and he is entitled to what he believes. I am a supporter of Mr. Barack Obama, not because I expect him to focus on my being of color issues, but because he speaks on the issues with hope, not just for my generation, but for the future generations.
Lisa
Debbie, I don't support Mr.
Debbie, I don't support Mr. Obama either because I don't know what he stands for. You are right, this is a very touchy subject and I have been attacked several times for not supporting this candidate. In my opinion, I see his candidacy as a way to eliminate the greatest threat to the Republic Party, Sen. Clinton. Mr. Obama, God Bless him, doesn't appear to have a position on anything that makes sense to me. For those supporting this candidate for no other reason than he is Black, do some research on president Warren G. Harding. The similarities are quite astonishing. By the way, President Harding was the worst in U.S. history.
I agree with the commenter
I agree with the commenter who cited Dr. DeGruy Leary's book Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome. It is indeed required reading for all those who call themselves Black and descendants of slaves in this country. That book will free a great many people from their self-dillusional states. Thank you Tavis for your commentary on Tom Joyner's show Tuesday. I did get it. And, you are right on target! God Bless.
The last time I checked we
The last time I checked we all had free will. So I am not sure why people are jumping all over Tavis.
I do not support Senator Obama because I disagree with some of his proposed policies. I think both he and Senator Clinton have greatly underestimated what will be required to get our troops out of Iraq. Just look at Basara and what's happening now that the British have pulled out.
I am not sure if any of you watched the Budget Committee Meeting on C-SPAN recently, but the proposed budget is a joke. It will be an uphill battle balancing this budget if either Senator Clinton or Senator Obama take over.
With that said, I have chosen to support Senator Clinton. I could care less if others think I am a traitor to my race because of it. Sadly there are lots of other people like me who are afraid to share their feelings for fear that they will be viewed negatively. I would close by saying it's a sad state of affairs when a black candidate can't be criticized without the questioner being viewed as racist.
What is Black enough? Now
What is Black enough? Now that's an intelligent question, not. Only we as individuals know if we are black enough. We have to be true to ourselves as individuals. We are a huge community, who does not always agree from one social point to the next, that's a good thing. You already know this as a people. No one can re-make us in order to accept to us. We can work anywhere and we are the most adaptable people when necessary. Just look at yourself internally.
As for as Senator Obama's comments. For me, we want equality, we want to be treated fairly, given the same opportunity as the next person from tech worker to CEO. As slow as it may be, we are making strides and accomplishing much. For a long time, whether you like it or not, inclusion has been a goal and in some cases a reality.
We have a candidate that's looking for inclusion and action from the people. Not just the African-American community but all communities; that sounds like inclusion too me. Remember, for those Republicans out there and those that did not participate in the last two elections. President Bush said he was a uniter not a divider. President Bush's cabinet reflected an across the board gender and ethnic diversity. President Clinton's cabinet the same.
Senator Obama knows that if he's to win the election then he will need the votes of all Democratic Americans. The pressure to succeed will be heavy if he wins. If he fails if elected president, then there will be such an excuse and an outcry to not elect another African-American President for some time.
Electing him president will not solve the discrimination that exists in our country. If we elected Hillary Clinton as president it would not solve the discrimination that exists in our country.
We need to address this problem and look for ways to fix it. The return on our investment (ROOI) starts with us.
What is Black enough? What a question, not.
They can’t ask a question
They can’t ask a question like that, how about a little common sense, they deserve to be sued.
On the other hand, I do understand the Urban League’s concern. Does the leader truly understand “Blackness” or is it assumed that the leader understands “Blackness” because of the color of her skin? I think when most people use the term "Black Enough", they are basically questioning a "person of color's" authenticity to the American Black experience. But in today’s diverse society, such a question is perfectly reasonable to me. It's unwise to assume a person understands the Black experience based on the color of their skin. When I hire, I sometimes consider race, sex, age, and religion; I’m just not dumb enough to ask about it.
Today, "Blackness" is more so in the way a person thinks about the world around them. For example, Black people generally share a certain level of distrust when it comes to people they perceive to be "white". Being Black is a state of mind that is largely rooted in American slavery, Jim Crow, and the civil rights movement. It has been passed down to and experienced by those of us who consider ourselves "Black". Basically, we are people who identify with the oppressed in America society.
I love my own "Blackness"...so much so that I consider myself as a Black man first and foremost (not an African American man). To me, African Americans are people born in Africa and who later obtained their citizenship in America. Although I'm closely connected to African Americans biologically and as a people oppressed, real African Americans have very little in common with my own cultural roots of growing up Black in America.
I'm Black, but I’m also a full fledge American, no prefix needed; I was born here and my ancestors had a big hand in building this country. "Black” is merely a term I use to identify with people closest to my own cultural roots…basically people of color who were born in this country, people whose ancestors were oppressed, people who view the world around them from an oppressed state.
I would say that some people are not as "Black" as other people because they have not internalized discrimination, oppression, and the remnants of slavery as much as others. I have friends from mixed parents that identify more with their white roots than their Black roots and that's OK. They are who they are and I make no judgment upon them because they don’t quite share the same “Black” connection as me.
If you grew up in this country as a person of color and have not internalized discrimination or oppression, that's cool....very cool with me. I don’t think you’re “Black” either, but you don't have to be "Black Enough" for me or anyone else…just be yourself. But, if you plan on leading a grassroots organization like the Urban League, then “Blackness” matters because it would help you to connect to the very people they are trying to help. It's not mandatory (of course), but you should be "Black Enough".
Everyone should just be themselves and be proud of whoever they identify with.
I am ashy black so being
I am ashy black so being black enough has never been one of the questions I dwell on, and since most of my friends are at least one shade lighter than I am, this is not a question that I have to deal with often.
Commitment, however, is another matter. If Senator Obama is committed to the cause of service above all, then he well do well in his endeavours, including that of being President, if he is so elected.
What I find very disturbing is the notion that, if you are black, then you must support him. It is the freedom to choose that will enable us to make the right choice. In the same way that all blacks are expected to support Senator Obama, then Senator Clinton should expect all women to support her, and in that case not only will she be president, but a woman will be president for the foreseeable future. Rev Jackson said on Monday that if every member of the Black Caucus be compelled to support Senator Obama, that would put us right back to the place we are trying to get away from.
Let us be smart and stop bashing folks over the head for support. If your message resonates with our hopes and aspirations for our families, communities and our people we will support you.
Being "Black Enough", is just
Being "Black Enough", is just a saying that people use to help identify themselves to others. This identity recognition changes while going through the various life stages as a black American.
For instance, being "black enough", to me as a child was those who knew what an icee cup was; or when I was a teenager having to go in the house when the
street lights come on; or while in college knowing how it feels when the teachers do not expect superior, but average; or while I'm an adult in corporate America and continually knowing how it feels to be the only black in the department....I can go on......but, just because every black American cannot identify with my life, doesn't mean they have not experienced or are willing to acknowledge their own plight of being black in America.
Believe me Colin Powell, Clarence Thomas, Condoleezza Rice and Thurgood Marshall all experienced in various ways what it means to be black!! THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BEING BLACK ENOUGH!!....believe me...they will never let us forget it...no matter what level you have reached...you are still BLACK!!
Alice Bitting - YOU ARE
Alice Bitting - YOU ARE COMPLETELY MISQUOTING SENATOR OBAMA. I listened to the interview and he said if he ONLY focused on the issues that face Black America he would not get elected. By the way, he has focused on some of the issues that face Black America. Most of our issues, however, WILL NOT be fixed by a president or any elected official. OUR problems will be need to fixed by US.
What is Black enough? Hell I
What is Black enough? Hell I don't know.The term is an insult. This is just another distraction for what is really going on in Black America.
Let's move on to more important issues like education, healthcare, crime, jobs; you know all those things that really matter.
Cathy
Well first of all, I think
Well first of all, I think the term "black enough" is just wrapped up in nothing but ignorance...no matter how you look at it and we as black folk really need to move on. It's been 400 years already! How long does it take to get our minds right?
And as far as Tavis and Barack are concerned, I wouldn't jump all over Tavis and say his SOBUs have been fruitless. If anything it's making black folk THINK on how to make the much needed changes for our community cause ain't nobody else doing for us; if anything they are still sitting back in a dimly lit room smoking the OOOWEE to come up with new ways to keep us down. And it takes time, it won't happen overnight but at least Tavis is getting the ball rolling. If he doesn't like some things that Barack is doing, then that is his prerogative; he is a journalist and expressing his opinion is just what he is going to do. I know he has said Barack declined to meet at the summit but he did have a good discussion with Barack on his show. Trust me, I don't think Tavis has "Barack-on-the-brain" as many of you seem to think.
I'm glad there is a form to
I'm glad there is a form to talk about issues like this, but it's sad that we as AMERICANS have not moved past these issues. The question is someone "Black enough" is crazy, and in my opinion just goes to show a person's true mindset and their own hidden racist attitudes.
I'm a "light skinned" male and within my own FAMILY and COMMUNITY there are many people who look at me different because of the tint of my skin. I'm no different than the next person. Until we all start to start to hold ourselves accountable for our own actions and choices then we will stay stuck in the mud and continue to divide our race, community, and country.
I must be honest about Obama also. I like the man as a person but my concern is that he will not advocate for issues facing Black Americans only because he has declared it on multiple occasions. I understand that Obama will need votes from other Americans because there are not enough Black folks to get any person elected on a national level. My point is this, there are many lobbyists or groups that are active to have their issues promoted in government, but I just don't see Obama committing to black folks' issues in America; I just see him doing what he has to to win the presidency. Again, I like Obama; I just have real doubt if he wins that black folks will benefit from his presidency.
Back to the Black enough question, we (black folks) need to stop fighting amongst ourselves and start taking stands on issues! There are times we just need to agree to disagree, and also we just have to UNITE to bring real change to AMERICA.
I would like to know what has the Urban League and the member who asked the lady the question is she black enough, what has that person done for their community?
I believe the intent of the
I believe the intent of the Urban League's interview question was to find out the overall world view and intentions of the interviewee, whether she was going to contribute to the advancement of African Americans and the company or contribute to the fortification of white supremist paradigm. However, the question was worded inappropriately and the issue could have been addressed in a series of questions whose answers would have given an overall insight of her intentions.
Being 'Black enough', I assume, refers to the way in which one views the world as it relates to the Afrocentric perspective. This is an issue because if one is African American in the position of power he/she can very well become what they call a 'symbol', that is, an African American in a position of power that does nothing for the Black community because his/her world view is not Afrocentric but Eurocentric. That is an issue that we as African Americans must be cognizant of because we can very well be oppressed and exploited by our own people.
I do think the question was
I do think the question was inappropriate. However, we all have a commitment to not being judged and we all judge. As an organization, they must be legally and socially responsible for what they do and say. However we, as a people, need to have compassion for each other, educate each other, communicate what does and doesn't work to each other.
Do I think we should sue organizations that are rooted in re-routing the predictable future for Black America....no. Only as a last resort; I mean, all measures have been taken to educate the organization as to the impact of its actions, maybe even having a document written to correct injustices made (signed by the organization). Educate them.
Sometimes people (who ARE the organization) say and do dumb things, we all have at one time or another. We are all responsible for the future of Black America, not just ourselves. Some accept that and some don’t. EVERYTHING you do as a Black person is impacting other Blacks in one way or another, know it or not. I think jumping to (if that is the case) sue an organization that has historically made a huge difference for Blacks, is inappropriate and could be considered "self-ish."
I highlight SELF because as the money may benefit the person (SELF) AND make a statement to others "NEVER do that again", but the impact will be far greater on the organization. It could cripple the possibility of "difference making" this organization could make for Black America.
We must work to have compassion for each other and I'm not talking about being walked on but we are a loving and gracious people, look at our ancestors and our living elders....look at us. We are a forgiving people; look at how we embrace white America after what happened to our ancestors.
Whatever you do, just THINK. Don’t jump right away. You will always do the right thing. LOVE.
It's only black people who
It's only black people who constantly use the ignorant term "Black Enough". Black people need to get a grip and get over these hang-ups.
On a another note to Tavis - please stop all the Obama rants because he's not available for your event. Leave the man alone and support him as he continues to campaign. He can't be at two places at once.
This continues to be the
This continues to be the question brought up in the black community when we want to discount someone or their contributions. I've never heard the question are you "white enough", when will we get past the past and move forward as a race.
I will not be voting for Obama, but it is not because he is not "black enough". I stand on issues and so should the rest of America. P.S Hillary will not be getting my vote either.
Eze 22:30 And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it: but I found none.
I am so sick of this question
I am so sick of this question of who's black enough. Who determines that? If a Black person speaks well, then they're talking white. If they move up the "success" ladder, then they think they are better than others. I think the people who ask this question are dissatisfied with themselves and their lives.
If you aren't living up to your capabilities, don't try to bring others down. We all have the same opportunity to excel; it's just a matter of how well prepared you are and how much of a desire you have to do it. Desire, not ability, is what separates average people from ones who excel, and the proof of that desire is in how they pursue things.
True motivation comes from within. Barack has that desire and motivation. He has a goal and his pursuit of that goal is evident. As MLK Jr said in his "I have a dream speech", he wants his kids to be judged by the content of their character, not the color of their skin. We should all take note of that.
Tavis spoke on the TJMS (2.12.08) on what it takes to be a free black man. Every one one of the reasons he gave, Barack Obama embodies that. Barack doesn't have to attend a State of the Black Union or answer to Tavis Smiley's ultimatums to prove that he cares about black people. He will not be a savior for all black people and putting that burden upon him is unfair, but electing Mr. Obama for president puts him in a position to better help our community. How many SOBU summits has Tavis had? What has come out of them? How many presidential candidates that have attended, (if any), actually done anything for our plight?
Putting Blacks in key positions in Washington is good, but what about the poor and disenfranchised? I still see redlining in my community; I still see higher prices in my community than white communities; I still see a higher number of foreclosures in my community; I still see a disproportionate number of black males in the penal system.
Has the plight of black people really changed by him having these summits? If the question of being black enough can be asked, can the question of being too black be asked also? If you love your black people so much, why were you absent in Jena or from the case of Genarlow Wilson in Ga? This perceived divisiveness from you is detriment to our community.
People usually don't like what they can't have and hate on what they can't emulate. As a free black man you can endorse whomever you please, but please don't try to discourage others from voting their candidate of choice. Black people aren't naive or stupid. We are smart enough to see through the BS of some politicians. We are able to look at the candidates, research and make a thorough assessment of where they stand. Also, Mr. Smiley, you speak against Mr. Obama's inspirational talk. You insinuate that inspiration doesn't help our people; inspiration gets people moving and doing things and working together. Issuing ultimatums only divides. MLK Jr was an inspirational speaker and look what he did. He brought about CHANGE, so why can't Barack's inspiration do the same.
Maybe some black people who would otherwise just sit back, finally WAKE UP! To quote you on the TJMS; "Tom Joyner doesn't speak for me and neither does Sybil." Well, you don't speak for me either, Mr. Smiley. I do that well enough on my own. Seems like you haven't been taking your big boy pills lately, free black man.
In my humble opinion being
In my humble opinion being Black enough is a state of mind, a state of being. It is being aware and knowledgeable of my culture, I came from where, what my ancestors came through, where I am today and what I want for me and my heirs in the future.
"Black Enough", I guess they
"Black Enough", I guess they really did not know her dedication to the cause or her motivation for working in this type of organization. I work in the law enforcement field, and there are officers that I work with that are not "Black Enough" for me. "Black Enough" is caring just a little bit about doing and saying the right thing to your people and not selling them out because they did not grow up like you or they are living in a bad neighborhood. "Black Enough" is saying what needs to be said in front of other people, be it black or white.
Let us be honest, we all know people who are not "Black Enough". Unfortunately, that's why we have been programmed from slavery. Read Post Tramatic Slave Syndrome by Dr. Joy Leary. Peace,
Dear Friend, I heard your
Dear Friend,
I heard your commentary on the Tom Joyner Morning show and thought I would share this with you.
Love is often times used as a cliché as if one is living in the moment of love but his/her heart is far from it. If love truly wins, then why do we ignore it? Why do we spend more time chasing the wind? Why do we chase things that are foreign in substance and contrary to love? If love is so powerful, why are so many people allergic to it? Love is not blind; it just only sees what matters. A love that is true never grows old. Love is a state of mind. Love, the key that unlocks the bars of impossibility. Love is when you look into someone's eyes and see their heart. If you truly embrace love in its essence and not the pronunciation, then you are on the right path. Freedom of love. A friend is someone who reaches out for your hand... and touches your heart. Side by side or miles apart, good friends are always close to the heart. That is what love is all about.
I really believe as Dr Martin
I really believe as Dr Martin Luther King stated, we as Blacks each need to sign our own names to the Emancipation Proclamation.
We need to free ourselves.
To even suggest there is a litmus test for "being authentically Black" comes from a myopic cultural and educational background.
Believe it or not, not ALL Blacks grew up poor, without a father present, were Baptist, drank Kool Aid or even ate fried bologna sandwiches (yuk!). But if that is your limited cultural experience, you can begin to believe ALL other Blacks live similarly.
Blacks are just as other races, a mosaic of beliefs and lifestyles. African Americans are Buddhists, vegetarians, enjoy the opera, and yes even hockey.
We are also at the same time, Afrocentric.
It is past time for Blacks need to free themselves from the MANY cultural norms and ways of believing that keep them subjugated. One of which is to suggest only a particular set of circumstances or background determine your "Blackness".
The question should not have
The question should not have been asked at all in a work environment. The Urban League historically was created to empower people of color. Mixed people are of color as well.
Since we are black enough to pay taxes...Then we are black enough to do anything we set our hearts and mind to do. Be it President of this America, President and CEO of a company a doctor, an attorney, a professor or school teacher, a realtor, preacher, whatever your heart desires..pursue it. Let's stop judging one another. Have a dream of your own and pursue it for yourself.
I am sorry she had to experience that. This is an election year, so it seems the dividers of this nation would rather put the one thing that no one can change up for debate. Get real serious.
Alice, you can hitch another
Alice, you can hitch another wagon if you like, but Obama was right. He can't run as "Black America's" presidential candidate and still win. Obama can't win the support of the collective majority through polarization. That doesn't mean he's not sensitive to the social and economic issues affecting African-Americans. For example, among other things, Barack Obama is a huge proponent of strengthening civil rights enforcement and ending sentencing disparities in our criminal justice system.
To me black enough doesn't
To me black enough doesn't refer to color but to your way of thinking; having said that, Obama, in my opinion, ripped his drawers this morning (February 11,2008) on the Tom Joyner Morning Show when he, in my opinion said that if speaking directly to the issues that concern Black America is what's going to get me elected president, then I won't be elected. Well Mr. Obama (who had my vote up to an hour ago), if my one Black ass vote is the one that would have put you in the White House, then you're going back to Illinois. PEACE OUT!
Black enough is some people's
Black enough is some people's way of saying I will not support you. I feel as though you do not live up to my standards. The sadness that surrounds this statement has no merit and it clearly gives us a mental evaluation on the person, or people who embrace this question. It is sad to say that people will not accept others for who they are; instead, they will embrace them on what they want them to be.
Black enough, African enough, or whatever, when God created us, that was enough. I guess in simple terms everyone should look at themselves and figure out who they are, not who people want you to be. Get off the rollercoaster of confusion. One day someone tells you you’re cute, the next day someone says you’re ugly, you’re too dark, too light. If you continue to let people define what God has already approved, then yes you deserve to be on that rollercoaster of confusion.
I decided long time ago as an African American woman, I will swallow rejection as my motivational pill, but I be darn if I let someone transform me into his or her image and likeness. Heck I can only be after one likeness and that is God’s likeness. Therefore, I cannot be what people want me to be; I must be FreeToBeMe.
It is as if people look at you and in their mental capacity, they began to recreate you in their minds. You will be a naïve prey to dance your way into that net. One thing I know about my faith and me, when you believe in you or something, it is virtually impossible for someone to tell me otherwise.
Does black enough come in shades of color, numbers or what? Is dark number one, two, three an indication that you are becoming black enough? Does the urban language play a part? Is living in poverty, strangled by struggle an indication of being black enough? Does low level of expectation qualify you as being black enough? I am trying to define this black enough thing. Does it mean we all stick to an oath of going nowhere? Do we get the gold tooth, or the teeth-missing image, followed by slacky pants with guns in our holsters, ready to shoot anyone who looks at me wrong or step on my brand new snickers by mistake? Is that being true to the game? I’m becoming dizzy; let me get off the ignorant train to nowhere and come back to reality where everyone should strive for the good in life, regardless of what people think of you.
What people think of you is not as important as what you think of yourself. If you think less of yourself, you will accept less in life. You do not have to be a millionaire to look in the mirror of life and be happy with what you see. Most people with money are not happy. Once you get all that you want in life (material things), you pause for a moment and realize there is something missing, that little thing call LOVE. Without love, what good is life? So asking the question about what God created, to me is a form of self-hatred.
Money, power, greed = foolishness. This is the kind of foolishness that makes people loose their self worth. People will loose their identity just to be in that status quo line to be accepted. How much more poison will Black America accept before they realize their worth? How many more people will Black America let define them before they wake up and take control of the ship? SELF WORTH, what does that really mean? Embrace SELF WORTH, without the exchange of a dollar bill behind you, and see what you come up with.
That's a horrible interview
That's a horrible interview question. I don't know what it means to be "black enough." As African-Americans, our diversity transcends skin color, religion, socioeconomic class, political views, etc. etc. If the hiring manager wanted to know how Jamie felt about issues affecting African-Americans, then the manager should have had a discussion about the issues. Understanding issues affecting African-Americans is more important than skin color. The ability to motivate employees (and volunteers) to fulfill the organization's mission is more important than skin color. In other words, competence is more important than skin color.
To answer your 2nd question, JEALOUSY. Where there is division amongst African-Americans, jealousy is almost always in the vicinity. It's also the #1 killer among African-American men between the ages of 18-25. Peace.